Partners with disabilities, in general, are less intimidating and more appreciative of attention, but that’s where it gets interesting. Many of them would self-deprecate without even realizing it. Devos like to dominate but admirers are less sinister, dare I say, insecure? The confidence level of these admirers is generally pretty low. The apparent vulnerability is attractive to both devos and admirers. Some had cared for someone growing up, and they were comfortable with that. It seems as though these people liked helping the other person, they liked the fact they were needed, and they felt safe. This is specifically common among admirers, not devos, as devos often identified their attraction in their early childhood years. Some of them did not develop their fondness at a young age, rather, after dating and loving someone with a disability that grew into their preference. Then there was a shocking commonality among admirers.
0 kommentar(er)
